Holly's Story

Holly's story of breast cancer survival

POTW: Holly’s Hooters!

    Last weekend was the annual Susan G Komen Race for the Cure event here in Knoxville and it was just an amazing time as usual.  It’s fun to see all the survivors interacting with each other and celebrating life together.  There is such an energy about downtown during the event… it really is something awesome to participate in.     For this week’s picture of the week, our team “Holly’s Hooters” posed for a quick [...Read More]

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POTW: Survivors

    This weekend we finally got to meet a couple who have grown very dear to us during Holly’s fight against breast cancer.  Lisa Kavanaugh and her husband Bob drove down from Columbus, OH to participate in the Race for the Cure with our team.  Lisa has been such a great support to Holly through everything she’s been through and was a wonderful encourager during the chemo phase.  Lisa is herself a breast cancer survivor [...Read More]

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POTW: Strides Against Breast Cancer

      This weekend has been an amazing weekend!  Holly and I have been wanting to celebrate being done with cancer in a big way with our friends and family who have been so supportive; and Saturday was the day.  Holly and I got the Pearson Springs pavilion and had little shindig complete with BBQ and more desserts then you could shake a stick at.  I never got an actual count of how many people [...Read More]

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POTW: Tennessee Valley Fair

    So week before last my wife gets a text message from one of her good friends stating that her and possibly some other of her friends wanted to take her to a “secret location” this Friday to celebrate her having her port taken out.  Holly of course quizzed me to see if I knew anything about it… I did not.  Holly, not being one to like surprises, then quizzed her friends about what it [...Read More]

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POTW: Holly’s Special Day

    This past Tuesday Holly finished the last of her treatments and we had a totally awesome day!  She had told me some time ago that she really wanted to celebrate when she was finished… and also mentioned something about a cookie cake from Great American Cookies, so I surprised her with a giant cookie that said simply, “Done!”.  The good folks at Tennessee Cancer Specialists had a surprise up their sleeve as well and [...Read More]

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The Best News Ever

Dan’s been on me to write here lately and I’m all about making him happy… Today I got the best news since June 18, 2010. I had a CT scan yesterday and it came back normal! I’ve been struggling with whether I should have a scan or not. My thoughts have been I should not because if something was going on them I would have to deal with it. Ignorance is bliss, right? But then [...Read More]

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POTW: Holly Climbs… Sort of

    You may remember from a couple months ago that Holly had made a vow to herself to ‘come out of her shell’ a bit and try some new things.  That manifest itself first with her going ziplining despite her fear of heights.  Well, next on her list of things to do was go rock climbing with me.     For those that really know me, you know that I’ve been rocking climbing for a really [...Read More]

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I finally have hair again!

I have hair again! After 7 months of wearing something on my head I have finally shed the scarves and started sporting a “boy cut”; though it’s not really a cut it’s just growing back. It’s still way short and not as thick as I thought it would be by this point, but it is growing back. I decided that Easter Sunday would be my first day out. It would be right at 4 months [...Read More]

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POTW: Holly takes flight!

    So this week’s picture of the week is going to be a little different as there is a video to go along with it… there is really just more to this story then just one photo can tell.  Anyway, this weekend Holly and I went ziplining in Sevierville at a place called Wahoo! Ziplines… and it was an absolute blast!  Now, this might not seem to crazy to some people… but was makes it [...Read More]

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POTW: New Beginnings

    Easter Sunday is all about Christ’s love for us, and all about the awesome salvation story of His resurrection.  It’s about new beginnings.  A couple week’s ago, Holly really started getting irritated with wearing hats all the time and so she decided that Easter Sunday was going to be her day to stop covering her head… her new beginning.  It hasn’t been easy for her; she said earlier that she felt like she had [...Read More]

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My Biggest Support

   I’m using this blog to tell about my journey with breast cancer, but I want to make this post all about my biggest support….  DAN!  So if you don’t want to read a bunch of mushy lovey dovey stuff, then skip this one.    Dan has been everything to me thru all of this.  Before cancer was a part of our lives he was always there for me, but since cancer he has really [...Read More]

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Finally done with chemo!

I’M DONE WITH CHEMO!!! I couldn’t be happier about that, either! I’m about 6 weeks out from my last treatment which was December 27. At this point, my tastes have all gotten back to normal. Food is SO delicious now that I can’t stop eating. I feel like I’m finally my old self again. My energy level is back to what it was and my eyes have stopped watering all the time!!! I know that [...Read More]

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POTW: Done with chemo!

    This week’s picture of the week is really the picture of a lifetime.  It is a picture of success.  It is a picture of accomplishment.  It is a picture of Holly with some of her nurses and her Oncologist after she finished her final chemo treatment!  This is a day we have both been looking forward to for quite a while now, and we are both just so thrilled that it is over.  Praise [...Read More]

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One bad treatment left

Coming up on my last treatment is huge.  I’m SO excited to get to say that I’m done, but at the same time I’m really dreading doing one more round.  I hate how the treatments make me feel, being run down and totally unmotivated to do anything.  Only one more, but that’s one more that I have to do.  It shouldn’t be a big deal at this point to do one more, but I won’t [...Read More]

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Halfway Done with Chemo

Dan has suggested that I write some more since it has been a while since my last post and now I am officially halfway through my treatments. So here goes… Treatment 3 (halfway mark) has definitely been easier than the 2nd round of chemo. Physically I’ve been fine thru both, but emotionally round 2 was a real kicker. I think that was the first time in my life that I’ve actually experienced real depression; and [...Read More]

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POTW: The power of pink

    This week’s picture of the week is of survivors… around 200 of them by my count, from the Susan G Komen Race for the Cure in Knoxville.  The event was held yesterday, October 30, 2010 at the World’s Fair Park and was absolutely amazing.  This was the first such event that my wife Holly and I have attended and when I saw these group of women (my wife and Mother-In-Law included) I was literally [...Read More]

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My hair is gone

Monday (day 14 from chemo start) my hair started to come out just like they had said. It was like clockwork. I got up to go to the gym and as I combed thru my hair with my hands, it just came out. I put a hat on and went on to the gym. Later when I took a shower it was obvious that the hair loss was starting for sure. Honestly I cried my [...Read More]

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First Treatment Down

I am officially one week past my chemo start date.  I’m happy to say that the week was much better than I had expected.  I wasn’t sick at all.  The worst part of it was taking the steroids; they really made me crazy.  I’ve had some side effects, but all minor compared to what I had in my mind.  I’ve got a nice rash all over my face and back, my tastes are all messed up [...Read More]

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A Race for the Cure

   Several of our friends and family have mentioned wanting to put together a Race for the Cure team to support Holly in her fight against breast cancer.  Holly’s oldest sister Lora has put together a team (‘Holly’s Hooters’) for this year’s race in Knoxville.  The race will be held on October 30th and you can join our team or make donations by clicking [here]. – Dan Thompson

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Treatment decisions have been made

After meeting with 2 oncologists we have decided on the more aggressive treatment.  Both doctors stated I would have to be on Herceptin for a year, so that was not different and both said the same type of chemo drugs (Taxotere and Carboplatin).  We did have to choose between 4 rounds or 6 rounds of chemo to be given once every 3 weeks.  It was really hard to not let my emotions make that decision [...Read More]

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Today was a better day

Ok, I’m done complaining (for today). Today has actually been a really good day. I thought that I would cry about getting my hair cut short, but I think all the crying from yesterday covered me for today. I had just a little short of 10 inches cut. I was going to donate it, but I didn’t make it to the 10 inch requirement. Dan says he likes the short hair on me and I [...Read More]

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Today I feel like complaining

Today I really feel like complaining.  So this is my disclaimer… if you don’t want to hear a bunch of whining and complaining, stop reading right now.  Wait until my next post and then start reading again. This morning in the shower I totally cried my eyes out.  This was the last time I washed my long hair.  Tomorrow I’m getting it cut really short.  Chemo is the next step in this process and it’s [...Read More]

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Surgery is behind me

A week has passed since I had surgery.  Each day I’m feeling better, but still not feeling like myself.  I have to say that I didn’t know just how loved and cared for Dan and I would be.  I’ve never had so much love showed that I can ever remember before.  We have received beautiful flowers, cards, emails and delicious meals!  It has been awesome to experience this kind of love and kindness (but I [...Read More]

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Post-surgery Update

    I thought I would just post a quick update on Holly real quick.  Her surgery went well on Friday; both doctors were pleased with the outcome.  Believe it or not, we got to come home yesterday afternoon.  It is crazy how quick they send you home these days… but as our surgeon said, he’d rather us spend as little time in the hospital as possible so we don’t leave with something we didn’t come [...Read More]

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Surgery is tomorrow

Well, this is it.  Tomorrow is surgery day.  I can’t begin to express how scared and full of dread that I am right now.  I guess the unknown is always the worst.  It feels like my life is ending and this new life that I don’t want and wasn’t looking for is taking over.  I’m still hoping to see the good in this, because right now I don’t see any good.  Tuesday was my last [...Read More]

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Why this treatment.

Dan has suggested that I write about how I (really we; because Dan is in this too) came to the decision of a double mastectomy.  So here goes…  My options were 1) lumpectomy followed by 7 weeks of radiation for 5 days a week; 2) mastectomy to the right breast only with the possibility of radiation and/or chemo to follow; or 3) double mastectomy with the possibility of radiation and/or chemo to follow.  The doctor [...Read More]

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Decision made, date set

Today we made our decisions on what to do. I’ll be having a double mastectomy with immediate reconstructive surgery. The start of this long process will begin on July 23. This is when the first surgery will be done. The doctor informed us today that he is 90% certain that I will have 6 months of chemotherapy; the part he was not sure about was if it would be once a week or once every [...Read More]

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Decisions, decisions

We wrapped up all final appointments as of today. All the tests are done. I got good news with the gene testing; I tested negative for the breast cancer gene. I really didn’t know this was good news to start with. I was so convinced that I had the gene that it was a shock when they said I didn’t. This is really great news. It means that I don’t have added worry about ovarian [...Read More]

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I can’t pretend for much longer.

I have to confess, I’m really surprised that anyone read this and actually commented on it. I really appreciate all the words of encouragement and support! I guess I should just get it out of the way and say “Dan… you were right.” People read blogs. Today we met with the second plastic surgeon. This meeting was different from the first in that the doctor explained in detail the procedure and the materials used and [...Read More]

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It’s cancer…

I’m writing this based on Dan’s suggestion. I’ve never read a blog or written one, so it’s probably not going to be that interesting, but here goes. Last week I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Needless to say it has turned our lives upside down. At 33, that’s not what I expected to hear. Yeah, my Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer at 40, but that was her. I always thought that if I was [...Read More]

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